Hey, folks, I've got a link for you to follow.
Contact Governor Schwarzenegger.
I know most of you aren't residents, but As Goes California, So Goes the Nation, right?
See, if you go to that link, and click "Have a comment," put in your name and email, and scroll down the "choose your subject" menu to "Gender-neutral marriage/AB 00043" it'll take you right to a handy page where you can send our gov an email. If on that page you click "Pro," and leave him a nice little note asking him to sign--not veto--our run for redefining marriage without gender pronouns (i.e. legalizing same-sex marriage), it would be a very awesome thing of you.
The text of the bill can be found here, and it's very, very good. It makes the argument well.
Please. As wonderful human beings, would you do this?
P.S. I would consider it a wonderful birthday present, if you did.